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Gate Keepers

There is a genius-level of creativity brewing in each one of us. It lies dormant waiting. It sits and waits for the right opportunity, the right door so that creativity and purpose can meet and kiss. Have you ever felt like a light turned on? A specific type of energy ignited in you once you met certain people and connected…

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Uniquely woman

On October 9, 1980, I was born. I came into this world, naked and free. Given a name by which every person, whoever was to come in contact with me, could identify who I am. Everything about me is unique, and there is no one else on the planet that is like me. And even though there will be people…

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A Mother’s responsibility to her daughter’s

. I often look at my daughter’s, especially the more that they get older. I am understanding the need to make sure that I set an example for them to realize what is acceptable when it comes to men and what’s not. It’s a great responsibility being a mother to daughters; the playing field is different. Some women are okay…

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Bodying Bodies

I knew that I was too old school for this generation’s idea of “dating” when it became hard to have a decent conversation with someone of the opposite sex. Something has changed, and I’m not quite sure when it turned. It’s like I woke up one day, and everything was different. Courting has become taboo, and getting to know someone…

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Level Up

Today I had a thought that maybe I’m on reserve. And as I thought about this, I began to think to myself, “What the hell you mean on reserve V?” So, of course, being the person that I am every time a word crosses my mind, I leap my happy ass to a dictionary. Why do I look words up?…

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You never see it coming

As I think about all the different scenarios of how we met, How if I could get that moment back and do differently, I would. I wish I could remove my presence from that day so that the encounter would never have happened. You see, my life was content before he came. I’ve always been a woman who didn’t care…

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An Introvert woe’s

Self-reflection is one of those experiences that can cause you to see you for you. A lot of times, we are easily guided in looking at others and their shortcomings, and we put this wall up to shield us from seeing ourselves, especially when it comes to our relationships. I, for one, have struggled in the realm of relationships, whether…

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Winning battles

We battle things unbeknownst to us. Things that were given to us through childhood experiences. And it isn’t until we allow God to turn the mirror on our self that we become aware of such things. You go from blaming God for allowing things that were out of your control to happen. You go to feeling helpless, like why do…

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What’s on the other side of the Terrain?

Have you ever felt like you were a small piece to a gigantic puzzle? And even though you feel so little, you know your part is necessary. When you look out into the abyss of the unknown, you quiver at the thought of this journey that you have no idea how to begin. Day in and day out; night after…

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Dress to impress

I am not one that desire’s to wear dresses; I am a tomboy and prefer jeans, a t-shirt, and flip flops. I am most comfortable when I am comfortable. However, when you are to attend a social gathering that is semi-formal, there’s a level of nervousness that comes over you. Now don’t get me wrong I enjoy looking cute and…

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