relationships

Detached

I write when I write. It’s been a minute since I have attempted to post. Someone brought to my attention that I do not post as often as many other individuals that have blogs. That made me smile, mainly because I don’t write for others per se; I write for me. I appreciate those that my writings have touched or…

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Love, what a beautiful thing!

I’m not quite sure why but the thought of love has been on my mind. I don’t know if a conversation that I had with one of my male friends sparked it or if I fell and bumped my head. Although, I did notice a shift in my desire after hearing him gush about a new woman in his life.…

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Sour Tears

They tell her to write soft, invite love to her words. How? All she knows is hurt. The truth speaks through every word. Each word gives insight into every woman who has been scorned, left, and abandoned. Love never showed up; the pain did. She desired love, and she wanted it, she needed it. Yet that’s not what showed up. How…

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Secret’s and social media

There’s much talk of people wanting to keep their relationships “private” and off of social media. Though I am in agreement with keeping the relationship’s private, I also have an issue with the term “private” being used when that is not what’s represented in regards to relationships.     Not everyone enjoys putting their business on social media or opening…

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Friviolous expectations

Tonight I had the privilege of attending a FB live discussion and I must say it was quite interesting and I had a lot of fun with the hosts.   The live was hosted by Speak up Podcast that airs every Thursday you can check them out at https://www.waytoparent.com/ or follow on Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/WayToParent The topic of discussion was…

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Possessor of the key

He walked towards her, brushed her cheek, and smiled. “If hearts were never broken, then they could never be mended.” He placed his hand inside of hers, looked down at her intently with a purpose in mind. “I know you’ve dealt with a lot of boys, but I’m here to show you what a man’s place is concerning his woman.”…

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You never see it coming

As I think about all the different scenarios of how we met, How if I could get that moment back and do differently, I would. I wish I could remove my presence from that day so that the encounter would never have happened. You see, my life was content before he came. I’ve always been a woman who didn’t care…

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An Introvert woe’s

Self-reflection is one of those experiences that can cause you to see you for you. A lot of times, we are easily guided in looking at others and their shortcomings, and we put this wall up to shield us from seeing ourselves, especially when it comes to our relationships. I, for one, have struggled in the realm of relationships, whether…

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